My best man hates public speaking!

My best man hates public speaking and I know he’ll be worrying about the speech from now until the big day. What can I do to help him relax?

Henry, 29

It’s natural to be a little nervous when making such an important speech, but there are ways to help your best man rid his nerves if they’re really getting to him. Check online for local courses or books available to help boost confidence when it comes to speaking in public – there are lots around. Rather than have him be nervous for longer than he needs to, why not rejig the order in which your reception flows, and let him make his speech before the wedding breakfast? Also, while a glass or two of bubbly may make him feel less nervous, make sure he doesn’t go overboard with a few too many! There will be plenty of time to celebrate afterwards.

Darren Noel, director of wedding website Hitched